"Don't touch what isn't yours. Me to any guy who isn't him." I found this quote on internet, describing with the depiction where a girl and boy sat together. Nowadays, these types of thing called "Aura". However, when fundamentalists use the term "Ghairah" then secular-society's problem occurs. When a muslim man tries to protect his woman from harm then typical western mindset began claiming this is oppression, though the women herself also trying to cover. The approach is different, yes the western woman though flirting, but not letting him touch her. And whereas Muslim woman she's already blocking the possible pipelines. One is tempting guy and saying to not touch, while another escaping from all possible ways to get engaged. For society to be function properly, Islamic approach is most fitting. Here, the probability of harm is less, and where women herself want to cover, then there no issues left to make criticism.